Helping Your Child Express Anger Appropriately
Thus the most important rule in handling tantrums is this: Ignore the behavior, but don’t ignore your child. What is your toddler trying to communicate to you through her tantrum? Anger? Frustration? Ask your child what’s wrong and at the same time, encourage her to calm down enough so that you can help her. Let your child know that if she’s frustrated with something, you can’t possibly help her unless you know what’s wrong-but that you can’t understand her when she tries to talk to you in the midst of a hysterical tantrum....